I am a lady 24 yrs old when I was working my father took a lot of money from me everytime telling that he would return me, he would threaten me to give money or leave the house, he would spend money on unnecessary things, I financed him for making building his ancestral home, I was forced to give heavy amount of donation for my sisters admition to the school of her choice, I had to finance my own marriage and I was always made to pay for miscellaneous things. I was regularly threatened to be killed if I did not comply with their financial demands, and later my father would tell that he threatened me because he got angry on me fighting. My father forced me to do some high premium policies and he had taken commission from the agent too. During my marriage even I did not keep track of my expenses he asked for even after marriage I quit job he(my father) asked me to pay for those policies. When I am asking for money he is asking me to pay him for raising me up. I am fed up with my parents
From India, Bhubaneswar
Dear Anonymous,
First thing you could do is stop providing any further money to your parents.
In my opinion, it will be rather difficult claiming your money back on account of several reasons. The most important one being that they are your parents and any money you gave shall be deemed part of a usual family transaction/ son's duty towards his family. Further, I doubt you have any proof of the amounts given or the fact that the same were meant to be 'loans'- to be returned to you by your father.
What you could perhaps do is lodge a complaint against the threats made to your life as well as the overall harassment caused. Do you have any evidence of the same? Those would, understandably, be necessary. You could also consider moving out to your own place.
A fact that might be questioned is from where you got so much money at the young age of 24. Hopefully you will have ready answers to that as well.

From India , Delhi
R WE FROM INDIA, ARE WE FROM THIS PLANET EARTH, i feel so sad that this valuable site has become a place to rape (sorry to use abusive language) the parents. please realize that they are living gods on earth, please learn to give respect to them if not money, all other problems you are facing can be easily solved and cleared,, b ut you cannot get your parents if you loose them.
From India, Hyderabad

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